Having a baby is an exciting time, but it can also be anxious and nerve racking, as it brings about the most amazing changes in your life. There's a lot to deal with. We look here at some of the changes you might be facing once you've had a baby and how you can deal with them.

Physical & Emotional

Your body will have gone through a physical upheaval and your emotions are likely to be all over the place. You'll be feeling a mixture of utter excitement about the new life in your world, but also worry, anxiety and no doubt tiredness too! Remember that every new mum will be feeling the same. It's important to spend time bonding with your new arrival and partner as a new family but don't be afraid to also rely on a support network of close family and friends and ask them for help.

Once you're more settled, it's essential that you continue to make time for yourself. It can be overwhelming to think that you are completely consumed by this new person. You must remember that you're not only a mum but that you are still also a wife, partner, friend, lover, daughter, sister etc. Obviously some of your priorities will need to change but take time out to ensure that you also fulfil and enjoy these other roles.

Financial

Now that you have an extra mouth to feed, there's bound to be more focus on money. You will need to adapt your lifestyle to accommodate for the extra cost especially if you are no longer working. You will need to be open and honest with your partner about your goals and priorities for your new family together.

Career / Work

We will look at this more closely in the next article, but once you've given birth and whilst you are still on maternity leave, you will need to consider if you need to or want to return to your job. You will need to think about such things as - Can you afford to not go back to work? Is your career important to you? Who will look after your baby? etc.

Social

If you've had your first baby then you'll especially notice patterns of socialising will change with those friends that don't have children. Your relationships with some of your friends will need to adjust. Involve them as much as you can so that they know you still need them and their friendship is important to you. It's important to also make new friends that will be going through similar experiences. Meeting new mums at baby and toddler classes will help you share what other women are going through and will help if you're feeling isolated.

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